Please post your question seperately,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Please write in clear sentences that convey message as your message is not clear to anyone..
According to what I understood I can say :
You are not expereinced enough to understand the gravity of HR in your organization. Your Boss are practical people and their interest is to run business and not creat disputes so they take appropriate decision. You have to learn more and mature first to become influential in organization.
DO not leave job and learn first spend time devote your attention to learn and mature read circumstances arround how your boss takes decision in the best interest analyse them and learn..
Partho