May be to an extent you are right but....... Ok let me differentiate
Love Marriage :
Whenever we talk of Indian wedding we try to equate it with arranged marriages.But there are certain things, which are found in love marriages and not in arranged. Like spending time together and getting to know each other. On this people may argue that even after knowing each other for so long than why people get divorced after marriage. It is because when two people are in love they are at their best to impress each other. They behave, they talk and they wear what the other person likes. But it is after marriage that you get to know the real person. There are couples who are still discovering each other even after twenty years of their marriage. This is the actual beauty of a relationship where every day you discover a new thing about your partner. Even in love marriages after many years of courtship people find their partner not suitable and they break up. So it is not about spending time together but successful marriage is all about understanding and respecting each other's feelings, love and concern
Arranged Marriage :
In case of arranged marriages the relation starts when the girl and the boy get to know each other in a couple of meeting before the final commitment. Arranged marriages, offer more protection, security to the women. As the parents decides the family. But it doesn't mean that arranged marriages are ideal marriages. Even in an arranged marriage there is a different sort of social pressure. Social evils like dowry, caste system, matching of horoscopes and community issues are taken at such extreme levels that people don't support arranged marriages.
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Love or arranged both is based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love and concern. So it's not just about initial love and attraction it needs a lot of dedication and effort to sustain a marriage. So there is nothing like an ideal marriage it's all about the way you perceive your marriage.
:-PWhether it is love or arranged marriage the core essence in both remains the same that is true unconditional love and understanding of each other. After all you should be happy with your life partner irrespective of love or arranged marriage:-P