How Should I Deal With Disrespectful Employee?

parthasarthi
Dear Seniors,
One of our employees constantly twists around everything I say to make the situation seem worse than it is.
For example, when I put her paycheck on the counter because she was busy, she told others that I threw it at her. She has lied about many incidents.
I have spoken with her several times and indicated that her actions are unprofessional and disrespectful.
This is not good for my reputation. I need a solution about how to deal with this employee.
Regards
Partho
K.Ravi
recently seems ur in lot of trouble coz ur posts show the details best of luck take a long holiday n some resttt:no::no::no:
Balaji Kuppuswamy
Hey
do you think a genuis? When someone asks for solution, you make fun out of it.
Are you a genius?
I have doubt
abhi16march
hey its all abt the diff humanbeings..and its not so difficult to handle ..u will find 5/10 personlike this ..so hndlimng wil vary frm one from person to other person ...actually wat is exactly tat person is ??whom u r dealing with.....try to kno his/her likes and dislikes...wen she wil feel pity ..wen she wil feel angry???? try to reach the al behaviroul detail of tat person......and i m sure if u kno all those things ..u can easily crack her.....
if she is not respecting .definately she wil hv some ego prob ....dont repaet the same.....u hv to give full respect to her and show proffesinalism....soon she wil realise ......
Ash Mathew
Hey Partha,
Let me tell you... its
All in the words you use. J
It’s a magic.. try this
“Hey – I understand that, something what I did has made you feel bad about it. I am sorry, but trust me nothing was intentional. Only after you said that did I realize that my words were wrongly understood. Please don’t take it to heart. Nothing was menat the way you thought it to be J “
And still after this she is acting different – just ignore.
I also had a similar situation . . . I just mentioned – sorry, it was not meant in the way you thought it to be. She still grumbled.
It took her two months to get back to me and apologize. I still had no reaction – but told her that I did not take it in a hard way as she had mi understood everything J
Just leave it – after a while they will get back to you and be normal
chandan2ykpankaj
Be friendly with her and have patience then judge the things will change.
Regards
Pankaj Chandan
nrawat1983
Dear Partho,
I m also facing the same problem like u here in my organisation, My boss always demotivating me, he always put wrong feed back about me to the top management thats why at the time of increament they give me an average grade. But I ignoring him & looking for a job because i think we cant contribut our best in a organisation where the boss have nagetive attitude.
Regards
Narender
dasp06
Talk to her to sort things out. This move will be difficult, but you have to try it once. If you find yourself back to square one, then stop reacting to her behaviour - this will work sooner than later.
Good luck.
orchids
Apologies Partho to ask so...Can I know if you have really encountered such situation.
Cos its so wierd that I sometimes happen to find queries which i can find the same in some other forums or newsletters. Pls dont mistake me. I just wanna clarify so that we can all really help.
And I have no intention to point out anything.Its just my nature to be straight forward.I do find many similar posts here.
orchids
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