Is Loving Someone Who Doesn't Care Like Emotional Suicide? Let's Talk About It

Kya pyaar karna suicide jaisa hota hai kya?
Jab hum kisi se pyaar karte hain aur wo humare pyar ki kadar na kare, to hum mar jaate hain, aisa kyun? :(:(:(

Dear Ravi,

As I feel, only one love is 100% true in this world, i.e., a mother's love. In other relationships, I can't say because you will find some selfishness. You are searching for love for yourself because of your happiness, not for others (wanting to get your own needs met). So, I must say we are selfish there, and if we are selfish, then definitely it's not true love.

People can't even think about what true love exactly is.

Serve the other person selflessly (mother's love) - this is the only true love, I think.

If you are in love with a girl, there are three things included in your relationship: love, habit, and attraction. If you add all three, it will be equal to 100%.

But in the case of a mother's love, there is only love: 100%.

If you are in love with your friend, there are two things included: love and habit.

So, I must say:

Mother's love > friend's love > BF/GF love

If you are in real love, then you will never think like this because you will not be selfish there.

So, if you are in true love with someone, then definitely you will not talk about suicide and all. Just love, don't think about others and all. Do selfless love. If you can't, then don't say it's love. Give some other name to this relationship.

Ravi, read it.

"We are wasting our time looking for the perfect lovers instead of creating the perfect love."

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I agree with you, Abhi, but being in love is not selfish at all. Look for unconditional love. Ravi, being in love and not getting anything in return can be compared to this: when we were young (a few months old), our mothers must have taken great care of us. We never knew the way she struggled to bring us up, yet at no point did she stand back and cry for not receiving love in return. She did not think about suicide, but she loved us more, and through this, we realized while growing how pure her love is. Therefore, expecting something in return can kill love. Love is the most beautiful thing in one's life. Just be unconditional when you show love.