Your question is somewhat personal. I believe that this is not a forum to discuss it. But let me introduce myself.
I am with ICFAI and posted at INC (Icfai National College) in Kannur, Kerala, as an Administrative Officer. Prior to joining ICFAI, I was with Hindustan Engineering Products, which was engaged in the manufacture of heavy machines. That was really a platform for me to study industrial and labor management. Lots of negotiations, unfair labor practices, charge sheets, labor courts, 7A enquiries, etc. But I had been very neutral between the management and workers, no kind of favoritism nor any inclination towards employer or employee. After the company went into liquidation, I remained with the management (even without salary for more than two years!) until an alternative was found to resume production. I was even instrumental in the memorandum of understanding whereby the new investors could resume work. However, some bitter experiences forced me to leave the company. If you ask whether I have been recognized for my service monetarily, I must say that still, the company owes me more than 3 lakhs by way of salary (in real terms of 2003, 04). I have never gone for gratuity or other dues as well. Let it be a contribution by an employee for having given employment for 13 long years. Just the opposite of gratuity!!!! Perhaps it may be my view about an employer, but I will never advise any person to stay back from what you have to get. My message to young HRs is given in my blog as "Managing the Relations".
My shift from the Manufacturing sector to Education was not intentional, but now I feel very comfortable because I work with a highly educated team, whether Faculty Members or even students who are MBA scholars.
It is a matter of immense pleasure for me to share my experience with the new generation of HR people. When I find any guy facing a problem in the organization either with the employer or with the employee(s), I recollect my experience and try to find a solution. I feel that some of my postings are taken in good spirit by many, and to that extent, I am very happy as well. In fact, in my early days with Hindustan Engineering, I was not aided by the internet and citehr.com, which is really a good platform for all of us to share and develop knowledge.
Well, do remain with citehr.
Regards,
Madhu.T.K