Dear Friend , we all have gone through such experiences some time or other. I would like to share with you the strategies i have adopted.
* You need to analyse weather is there anything which probabaly is lacking in you, may be you are not able to complete the work within given time frame, may be you have not done the job in a propoer manner and there was scope to d it better. Once you realise that there are some areas where you need to do better concentrate on that and try to improve.
* During criticism it is better to avoaid prolong argument. some times if criticism is made in front of others need not to feel bad. cool yourself in your office, reason out, and than if required go back to your boss , when he is alone, to discuss out the difference in perception if any. Replying back to him or reasoning out with him in other presecnce will further deteriorate the environment.
* lastly if your good in job and you are enjoying your work. let me repeat- If you are enjoying your work these things will die down gradually when your boss shall realise your importance.
ultimate mantra is focus yourself on gains if any from crticism and leave the rest. tell me how many people would have remebered that once in your ocllege days so and so lecturer had criticised you. No one remebers. Life moves on do not keep things in your mind.
* You need to analyse weather is there anything which probabaly is lacking in you, may be you are not able to complete the work within given time frame, may be you have not done the job in a propoer manner and there was scope to d it better. Once you realise that there are some areas where you need to do better concentrate on that and try to improve.
* During criticism it is better to avoaid prolong argument. some times if criticism is made in front of others need not to feel bad. cool yourself in your office, reason out, and than if required go back to your boss , when he is alone, to discuss out the difference in perception if any. Replying back to him or reasoning out with him in other presecnce will further deteriorate the environment.
* lastly if your good in job and you are enjoying your work. let me repeat- If you are enjoying your work these things will die down gradually when your boss shall realise your importance.
ultimate mantra is focus yourself on gains if any from crticism and leave the rest. tell me how many people would have remebered that once in your ocllege days so and so lecturer had criticised you. No one remebers. Life moves on do not keep things in your mind.