Hi shweta,
I can very well understand your problem. This is not the case with you only. There are many victims of such situations. But you have to remember one thing in your mind ie. TOUGH TIMES ARE TESTING TIMES......
Try to learn from such situations.
The most important thing is make a directory of all the employees who are in your concern. Its not always that you need their help, some times they can ask you for the help s well. Try to notice individuals behvior. How they react to you in difrent situations, like
When you ask them for help.
When you ask them for new assignments.
When they need you to complete some task.
How they treat you in the morning.
You will have to keenly notice their behaviour. How is their behaviour in side the company and how they behave after working hours.
Its very true that human behaviour keeps on cahnging. Its not possible for a person to behave in the same manner for the whole day. It keeps changing. Try to notice their behaviour at different situations.
This will not only help you to find out the causes of their problem with you but minimize the gap also.
Above all it will keep your mind bussy all the times.........
And one more thing that I would like to suggest is........
Once you are out of the office,
Stop thinking about it and enjoy your personal life.....
Regards
I can very well understand your problem. This is not the case with you only. There are many victims of such situations. But you have to remember one thing in your mind ie. TOUGH TIMES ARE TESTING TIMES......
Try to learn from such situations.
The most important thing is make a directory of all the employees who are in your concern. Its not always that you need their help, some times they can ask you for the help s well. Try to notice individuals behvior. How they react to you in difrent situations, like
When you ask them for help.
When you ask them for new assignments.
When they need you to complete some task.
How they treat you in the morning.
You will have to keenly notice their behaviour. How is their behaviour in side the company and how they behave after working hours.
Its very true that human behaviour keeps on cahnging. Its not possible for a person to behave in the same manner for the whole day. It keeps changing. Try to notice their behaviour at different situations.
This will not only help you to find out the causes of their problem with you but minimize the gap also.
Above all it will keep your mind bussy all the times.........
And one more thing that I would like to suggest is........
Once you are out of the office,
Stop thinking about it and enjoy your personal life.....
Regards