Pradeepa,
Thanks for bringing this to our notice.
the only thing substantial in post is "Colleagues are work mates & not friends", which i completely agree.
The rest I feel is just a way for you take out your frustrations, maybe it happened to you or ur close friends, watever be it.
What people do they do it knowingly or unknowingly its upto them, if some people want to get into an extra marital affair, it's their call. They know the consequences.
Now, i know that ur post is about learning how to stop this from happening, but what u need to understand is that ur techniques are baseless, we want someone to talk to, sometimes we make friends this way. Sometimes people love flirting even if they are married it brings the zing back in their lives, and about husband - wife relationships, well they need to be open and with an ample amount of communication. Communication is the crux of stopping these affairs.
If there is no communication. then people look for someone who is willing to and that leads to various bad habits as you state.
So i dnt agree with ur orthodox ideas & ways.
Next time when you want to pen down ur thoughts ensure that ur research on human behavior and psychology is upto the mark, as I see no research done by you at all, just the typical Indian female psychology, "stay at home dont talk to boys, be a good nice housewife and ur husband is god & always right" and Other men (not the husbands) they are hungry wolves who are only waiting to get into the women's pants.
Regards,
Galvanize