Is it really so impossible to co-exist?
Charity begins at home. If we could just instill certain values in our children about 'respect', the coming generation will surely be in a better condition that we are now. There will be harmony, peace and love within the society. Do you'll think that if our childrens are morally strong, do they need AIDS education? I think not.
We can instill these vital values in our children only when 'we' understand the importance of 'respect'. Why are we fighting over who is better than whom; men or women? Why can't they be beautifully different and amazingly inter-dependent? Why can't there be respect for each other and accept their differences?
Women need to stop hating men so that they accept their own shortcomings. Women must realise that nobody is perfect, and that happiness lies within. And men need to develop more self-esteem so that they don't go out of their way to seek a woman's love. Low self-esteem forces men to seek a woman's love the wrong way. Women must understand that men are born thinkers and so they are bound to keep their feelings to themself. Men must understand that women are hungry for love and support. Why do we, men and women, have to fight for 'rights'? There is no such thing as 'rights'. There are only duties. Men must do their duty and women must not abandon their duty calling it their 'rights'.
Unfortunately, some feminists have gone crazy, and worse is that they are now in authority to dictate legal provisions for women.
Harmony and peace in the society can be attained when we nurture man's and a woman's natural instincts. A man should be taught to respect himself and a woman should be taught to respect culture. This way, a man will respect himself and women, and women will bring peace in the society by respecting culture. They both have to play their respective roles, and only then can we expect India to progress.
Enacting such biased laws will only increase gender gap, differences and create hostility between genders. We need moral values; not laws. Law only punishes the crime, but it never prevents it. Why don't we think on the line of preventing such crime instead of punishing the culprit? Besides, our judiciary is such that it will punish hundred innocent people to convict one criminal. Is this fair?Only moral values prevent crimes.
Now is the time. We need righteous people in politics. People who are qualified, experienced, having moral standards and above all, they must set an example of a true Indian citizen. "Jaisa raja, waisi praja." Till now, the corrupt system is running the people, but now we must empower people that they must run the system the way they want it. Even if somebody wants to change the system, he/she will be forced to be a part of the corrupt system, and his/her identity will be lost in the bureaucracy. We need leaders, not politicians. We need social entrepreneurs, not feminists.
There is still some opportunities to change the system. We need to answer this question. "Are you concerned about your children's future in the Indian society?" The answer is "Yes".