Dear All,
It is all in the mind...... let me explain from my personal observation...i am a father of a daughter who is working in Navratna of PSU. She dresses good... looks good..and carries herself good... I am a HR Head and when i discuss with her these type of issues... she does not gv a damn..simply says that it is performance that counts... when office closes at 5 pm there are many occasions when she reaches home at 9 or 10 pm. I am surprised at the way she talks sometimes with her collegues... her voice is cold and impassionate..sharp and cutting... she speaks void of emotions.... but she is so friendly with them as well that when there is a personal occasion like birthday everybody flocks in to wish and gift.... but the next day she is somebody different...
I think it is ultimately how u carry yourself... dressing good does not invite eyes...behaving friendly does not invite rumours... be bossy and be pally too...
Women are entirely a different lot today.... there are still many timid and tense lot of them but they are there in males too.... anyway....good luck to all of you womenfolk here..i agree with one thing that at the end of the day u need to take of the house as well... but i hv known household who never cooked at home...becaz the lady is working...facilities are available now a days...make use of them....(for that one lady who said that going to office in a male colleague's car..pls learn driving.. many ladies drive now)....
It is all in the mind...... let me explain from my personal observation...i am a father of a daughter who is working in Navratna of PSU. She dresses good... looks good..and carries herself good... I am a HR Head and when i discuss with her these type of issues... she does not gv a damn..simply says that it is performance that counts... when office closes at 5 pm there are many occasions when she reaches home at 9 or 10 pm. I am surprised at the way she talks sometimes with her collegues... her voice is cold and impassionate..sharp and cutting... she speaks void of emotions.... but she is so friendly with them as well that when there is a personal occasion like birthday everybody flocks in to wish and gift.... but the next day she is somebody different...
I think it is ultimately how u carry yourself... dressing good does not invite eyes...behaving friendly does not invite rumours... be bossy and be pally too...
Women are entirely a different lot today.... there are still many timid and tense lot of them but they are there in males too.... anyway....good luck to all of you womenfolk here..i agree with one thing that at the end of the day u need to take of the house as well... but i hv known household who never cooked at home...becaz the lady is working...facilities are available now a days...make use of them....(for that one lady who said that going to office in a male colleague's car..pls learn driving.. many ladies drive now)....