Debate On Marriege

hi all,
accordin to my view arrange marriage is gud bcoz if any problems happen in married life we cn directly approach to our parents ,relatives etc in the case of love marriage if there is any problem occurs i think 90% parents & relatives dont help ,they ll tell (u urself solve the problem , on ur marriage we all tell u look 4 another guy/gal, v dont like this marraige) like that they will tell
so if v hear elders word suerly they will help
binz

Love has to be there in life Soju... There is no life without Love, I didn't mean that.
The discussion was over the way of marriage, whether it should be a Love marraige and arranged one...
Risk of failure of marriage is more into love marriage, despite of it is based purely at love, Reasons are as stated above.

Thanks Malini,
Liked you thoughts too and inspired to write further...
Love can happen at any point of time... at anywhere... but.. marriage is an entirely different ball game.

Yes dear Abhishek, Love can start even after marriage also.... :),
at any point of time in life.........
I also had same kind of revolutionery thoughts, you have... but now exprience is speaking... it's not a bare gyan baazi like you... :) :) ;)

no dear ..if i am talking abt anything ythts not the bookish..its ll comes from my heart..how i m thinking abt the relation.and u wil never kno ..i am the person who is blivs in learning fromthe child also..and i love to kno abt diff kinda humabeing .......if u wil ask ur self..u wil get the all answer man.....and if i wrote anything abt marrige..its all my own thinking .perception abt the topic......

Love is the pillars of all relationships..............no love then no relationship exists either before marriage or after marriage, either love marriage or arranged marriage..............

Hey abhi, don't get senti yaar... your thoughts are quiet valuable...
Well Malini, It's a genuine concluding thought......

Hey abhi, dot get senti yaar... your thoughts are quiet valuable...
Well Malini, It's a genuine concluding thought......

hi runal
ya thats correct
i share the case when problem occurs na
if we proceed the relationship in gud manner then it will exists for that i think v need open communication between couples
binz:icon1: