Hi Urvashi,
It doesn't make sense to hide his name among we all friends.. By, doing this, you can warn the so many lady victims..(who presently, is doing same thing with other lady professionals..). Because, the so called gentleman, who is doing this, is surely reading everything.. And, he's smart enough to give his fake identity or back-ground..(If you have official id, then that's the best..)
You even sent your profile with all your details??).. ; as long as you are not giving FIR with Cyber Cell.. his career will not be ruined.
I really feel very bad for you as I am from Chennai and that too from HR..(always feel proud for a lady's security, even during wee hours..).
Few of the black-sheep in the lot are always
I just would like to advice few points to all the lady employees to take care of few things always (especially, the ones who are staying in hostels/PGs/different location, other than home-town):
1. Never give the full address and contact details blindly to a group, whose members are not even your acquaintances..
2. Mail your CVs only to corporate ids only like (direct company/consultant/jobs postings..)
3. Avoid blindly sending profile even without the knowledge of vacancy..
4. Just give a brief of your experience like (4-5 yrs. of exp. in HR with IT/ITES or BPOs and presently working as Asst. Mgr-Recruitments; etc.,) then, later you can send the CV..
5. People will start copying your skill-sets or JDs/Responsibilities to their CVs..Not, everyone can write good resumes.. So, they just visit the net-cafe, try to read almost all the saved resumes in that system and create their own with copy, paste and editing..So, please delete your CVs or any other details like online stmts.CC stmts. etc., before logging off..
Last, but not the least; PLEASE REMOVE YOUR ID Card Before leaving the office Premises..(always see girls on the bike, local buses and trains with their cards hanging).. Indirectly, inviting troubles ourselves.. So, prevention is always better than Cure :)
Always be safe..
Bye.TC:) Sang