Yous seem to be a frustrated person. I have seen some of your earlier posts and they all point towards you being mistreated and being wrongly judged.
Meena, I think you need to sit down with a peer and work out your frustration. Frustration leads to revolt which will not be good for any one.
During my earlier days I faced the same problem and was a very angry person and went against everything. It did not help I lost out on a number of promotions, in the end I suffered and did not gain any thing.
If you feel like freeing your soul and talking about what is troubling you you can send me private message or send me a mail to
I am sure many of us on this site will be ever willing to assist you in overcoming your troubled mind.
Each one is good at some think and I am sure you are also good or even very good at something oyu have use that skill in your day to day life.
Please think it over.
Have a great day.
Now that you have agreed that you are frustrated, what is the next thing to do.
Who are peers you are complaining about?
What have you done and why do you want them to contact you directly?
I do not understand what you wish to say.
Remember one thing. If you are angry do not write a post. Compose yourself and then write down what you have done and you expected in return.
Did you contact your peers and did they cold shoulder you?
Did you ask for specific help or help in general?
If some one asks me to help them what do I do, You must specify what you are looking for and in which direction.
Take a day or two off from work if that is the place that has caused you to be frustrated.
Meena life is not a bed of roses we all face troubles but have to have the strength to face them and over come them.
You can still contact me directly by mail and I will see how best I can help you cope.
Say a prayer and be calm
my peers are people whom i worked earlier ,its liveconnections consultancy firm located in hyderabad and having various branches in other cities too u can view the co website Live Connections - We place People First - A Job Portal
i worked as office administrator and Mr moses has appointed me into his co with salary
pay of Rs 3000 i told my mgr that my pay is very less he promised me that he is going
increase my pay after 6 months , after completion of 6months i was expecting appraisal
but he did not keep up his promise and also reminded him of appraisal , by that time the
co was doing well and he started recruiting few more employees, as more people were
appointed my job work was increased and they even made to do things which were not
related by job responsibilities they always ordered me and i always followed their order ,
my manager was satisfied with my job work and why not with less pay he was getting
more services from me , things went on till 1 year , again i approach my mgr either
increase and put me in other co , he said ok for replacement and he also accepted the co which i was
interested into which suited my skills and profile, then he appointed another mgr in his
place and left hyd to open a new branch in bang lore and i worked for 3 more months
under the new mgr, without appraisal , as my father not doing well, i asked to increase my pay
till i get job in other co my mgr got frustrated and asked to resign the co without serving
me notice period, before leaving the co i have forwarded my profile to client place, but my
interview was scheduled after 1 month ,till i month i was jobless after attending the interview
i have undergone few rounds by junior people and they told that further rounds will be next month, next
month i got call from the client and i was asked to attend further rounds the mgr was
impressed with my interview and i have seen smile on his face and at last i was told thanks ,
few more days passed away and the client has given my joining date to my co people, when i approached my colleague
my colleague has told me that i haven't got selected this was wrong feed back which my
co has given me
well this my story and many times i have written this in cite hr
u will get further answer to ur quires when u first start reading everything
Let us get the main points out in the open.
You joined a recruiting company in an administrative role, You accepted a very low salary due to the situation at the that time. This kind of salary is given to people who work in supermarkets.
There is not much you can do, now that you do not have a job you have to try and find a job, That is easy said than done.
I am sure some of the people on this site would be able to help you with an administrative job.
Unfortunately at the moment I do not know of any vacancy in organizations I know.
Keep one thing in mind you have had an outburst of your woes on this site so many would feel that you are not in the right frame of mind to take up a job right now.
Please remember that these days, what you have experienced happens in almost all small companies. There are two many job seekers and too few jobs.
Send me your CV and I will try my best to find a decent job for you.
Start posting cool headed and meaningful posts on this site to show people that you have overcome the bad experience and are now ready to move on.
These things happen to many people but remember the saying "When the going gets tough the tough get going"
Pray and build your inner strength and try and keep calm, good things will come your way.
Overcome your frustration by taking up a pass time that you like, use this opportunity to learn.
Try and improve your skills in English communication.
now they are even able to view my entire system and tracking my phone calls through some media where changing the phone number also of no use and even opting for new other broadband net connections is will be of no use,
i am sure they are in touch with u , and pretending u to me as stranger
Ronald is trying his best to help and support you, you really should listen to what he has to say.
Your posts are extremely confusing and have to be read two or three times to make sense. This is happening because you are frustrated, confused and angry. But you have to get over it and get a grip so that you can move on.
If you have resigned, then you should not contact the company. Take a clean break and start with a fresh mind.
I urge you to read Ronald's posts again and take his help, support and advice.
You are doing a great job here. Try and keep it up, Meena needs help but I fear - in this case - more than one person getting involved will only serve to confuse her, as she is too frustrated, confused and angry. I will keep an eye on this and only step in if I can add something more constructive to your advice.
I wish both of you the very best.
i have not resigned the company , i was removed from the company, now again that co wants me to join back, they kept a situation that i need to make call to get job
which i have already done earlier but directly they are not giving proper response
Please calm down, every body is not out to trouble you. I cannot imagine the problems you are facing but I know it can be very frustrating and will make you angry.
As Harsh has said take clean break from your old company, part with them in good faith. get your relieving letter and experience certificate from them.
Remember as a person you cannot fight against a company don't do a Don Quixote in these times. He failed and so will you.
You have to take care of yourself and your father.
I still do not know your educational background and work experience, you can send your CV to me as a private message on this site.
I have already tried to explain to you the situation and do not want to repeat myself.
Don't you have friends with whom you can sit and talk about your trouble, you need a shoulder to cry upon and comforting hand to help you through these hard times.
It is difficult to move on when you feel cheated and victimized but why you and not others in your company.
Think about this, did you do something to make some people unhappy?
I am not judging you, just trying to help you dig deep inside to find out the reason why this is happening. Normally there is a Cause and Effect to every thing that we do or that happens to us.
I trust you will try and keep calm, retrospect and try and find an explanation to the problem.
But you must find another job first.
Smile it does not cost anything,
why dont u understand, my system is hacked by liveconnections , phones are getting traced
and some other things also they have done where i am finding difficult in searching job, i am captured from all the four sides through various sources and people are also supporting liveconnections and
please ask harsh to forward the message which i have sent to him , then read it carefully
i do not have any friends , all my friends have cheated me
if u really want to help give me some home based job
i am good in finance and ms excel any job to relevant to this
i have good communication i can get job anywhere ,if liveconnections do not interfer into my life
many times i approached them directly in this regard but those are not ready to accept
Firstly, let me tell you one thing. This is ofcourse a big trouble for you which is in fact not a deal. Mr. Ronald is doing his best and I would liek to appreciate. And you must learn this good thing from Ronal that, directly or indirectly he has made you to aware what you are, and what is your prob.
If you have got your experience letter from your previous company, You are landed safe. If not, you can juzz tell abt your last job experience and why you did not get any certificates / related docs.
To b frank am currently working as a placement officer in a B School now. But i do hold some experience as Recruiter in consulting firm & later turned as Sr. Executive HR in a corporate office with an overall exprnc of around 4yrs. So if you could send me your CV, can not assure you that I will look out for a job for you but will try my best.
And more over as Mr. Ronald said, pls dont burst out here. which may leave an impression to people about you and thus may also affects your job search.
Wish you Good luck
With all due respect to your sanity, it is difficult to digest why your past employer is so after your life and putting hurdles in getting you job in vindictive manner.
With all sincerity and good wishes, none of us here at Cite will be of help to you. Only Psycho therapist or Psychiatrist
can effectively help you out. So without wasting further time in seeking advice here, approach one quickly and get out of this mental cobwebs.
Hope things will turn brighter soon.