Rahul Sethi
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Till now I only heard about misuse of law by females.

Now I am victim of it.

One of my best friend got married in Dec 2007¡­he is an engg by qualification and working with a very good MNC at comfortable position.

His was an arrange marriage, As the boy was living in Delhi and family was in Jaipur, so he decided that for first few month he will be living alone in Delhi, will make all the arrangement and then around May or June he will bring his wife along with him.

His family comprise of him, his younger brother lives in Mumbai (Working with a very prestigious company) his sister (married and settled to other city) and Mother and Father. Father is working with a very prestigious bank as branch manager. Overall a well settled and smooth going, god fearing family.

As no one was in Jaipur apart from Mother and Father, so majority of time almost more then 3 months the girl lived with her parents only and boy¡¯s parents also not objected coz they said as she is recently married so must be missing her family. It is better if she can spent time with her family.

Around 10 days back boy got a news that the girl is pregnant, he was absolutely shocked and in sonography report it is showing that the pregnancy is of more then 02 months.

As per boy ¨C On first night itself the girl made a request to the boy that she need some time to prepare herself to get involve with him and he happily accepted that.

The first time they made relation is hardly 1 month back.

He is saying that he is ready to go for any test available in medical science.

Now after sonography report girl is with her family. Boy and his family is trying to maintain communication as much as possible but they are not responding any of their calls.

Once they tried to go to girls place but someone said, she is not available and family is not in town, but they were in town only.

Boy is absolutely shocked and not able to express anything.

We have taken advice from some lawyers also, but they are saying as per law you can not do anything, coz law in India is absolutely in favor of girls.

If she gives birth to child, boy need to take care of him till the age of 18, if child is a boy and if child is a girl boy need to take care of her till she get married.

And if he applies for divorce and girl file a case of dowry, he need to go to jail.

What a great Law we have¡­¡­¡­I request to all kindly ask any of your known lawyer, if there is something in law, by which we can save the boy¡­¡­

Please do the needful, as this is a question of life for someone¡­..and not only his but whole of his family is in trouble¡­¡­¡­..

This is a request, kindly do advice, He is a very good friend of mine and I know he is not at fault¡­he is getting torture of being innocent¡­¡­¡­¡­

Awaiting for your response.

Kindly do respond¡­¡­¡­



From India, Jaipur
Hi Raj,
Really Sad About ur freind.
the First thought that came in mind while reading ur mail was by some way the gals blood test could be dine and matched with boy's blood samples.
There are a lot of tests in medical today which can immediately confirm the positive or negative relation with the Concerned man.
But for that there may be a little consent of the gal may be needed.
Hope for the good.
Other members please advice.

From India, Delhi
Dear Raj

I am really sorry for your friend, if it is bothering you so much, I am worried what will be your friend's condition....

Unfortunately I don't know any lawyer....in my circle...but I am really shocked that if girls have such a blind law with them...

Your friend need to be very conscious, you can advice him to hire some private detective (Ofcourse it will cost, but I don't think money matters in that case) to collect some proofs, I feel they can be of great help...

Along with that ask him to go for best lawyers in that case....

I know this is very small support from my side, but I know this much only as of now...I wish I could support you more by any means...

I request other citeHR members to come in front and advice...also as boys' family is in Jaipur so if anyone can suggest some really good lawyers in this case...(Please refer only those lawyers who are serious for boy not for the money.)

Please all citehr members come in front....Lets support one among us...who is in need.


Sujeet S Rajawat

From Nigeria, Lagos
Dear Raj
As per our conversation, I have putten your case in lawyersclubindia.com.
You can visit that case and can get the feedback from the best professionals in that field.
I feel, now no need to worry, only cross your fingure.
Everything will be alright.
With Regards
Sujeet S Rajawat

From Nigeria, Lagos
Hi Raj,
we can not trust ur friend until unless it is medically proved that the baby is not of ur friend.Who knows that his parents were not behaving well wid her after he left for his job & that was the reason she was staying wid her family & when she did not come back & now that she is pregnant ur friend & his family does not want to accept her for any reason & now maligning her by making this story.
Even u do not know the fact coz u know wot u are being told by ur friend. so do not go by words there so many scientific & medical ways to find out the truth. Do not get emotional & use logical & snsible ways to find the way out.

From India, Delhi
Dear Abhi,
Don't worry, here are so many laws which are protecting to women also protecting to men, take advice from a senior lower, and I am confident that your friend will surely get justice. Read Indian Marria4ge Act, IPC.
All the best

From United States, Los Angeles
Hi Raj,
I feel sad for u r friend , but i can suggest one thing u can go for DNA test which will help u alot by knowing this thing whether u r frend is right or wrong . i know he is right
but to proove in front of others & in this society u have do this i hope it'll help u.

From India, Mumbai
God will really punish the one who is wrong, dont worry every thing will be fine...dont loose hope. there is a day of justice and thats not far.
From India, Bangalore
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