Rajat Joshi
Hr Consulting ,trainer -creative Thinking
Human Resources - Employee Relations
Gunjan Khaitan
Client Relations & Delivery
Recruitment + Documentation + Sap Hr Professional

hi all,
kindly find time to read this article,I hold it very close to my heart for few reasons
1. its full of my personal experiences
2. my college in-house publication rejected the article saying the language is'nt proper.
3. they also said that I am not a recognized person to write such articles.

now I want you all to decide how is it?
please give me your feedback at , or reply back at cite HR
Sonit Singh

From India, Hyderabad

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Hi I have posted my article with a lot of expectations on the forum but it seems nobody has time to comment on it. please comment, I need to understand howz it? Regards, Sonit Singh
From India, Hyderabad
Hi Sonit,
Welcome to the forum.. :D
Read your work..it's interesting and well written but what it lacks is the punch at the end..something like a twist in the tale..otherwise i see the budding n upcoming writer.. :D ..
Don't get disheartened easily..i remember when i wrote my first short story for a middle column newspaper..had to make upteen changes as suggested by the Editor of Maharashtra Herald..yes it made a difference..so much so the couple who liked the story have framed the same..n every time i visit Marz -o-Rin (Pune)..the owner(lady) always happy to see me even today though i wrote the same in 1992 when i was in college..probably like you was coping with the growing rebellous phase..
Hey the point is don't get disheartened easily..keep working on & on..who knows you might be the next Anurag Mathur ( Inscrutable Americans).. :D

From India, Pune
Hi Mr Joshi,
Thanks for giving your feedback. The reason why I wanted to know how the article is,because my college authorities had told me that I cannot write such an article bcoz I am not a reknowned writer, I cannot use the first person english and so on....What you have suggested to me is to add smthing in the end to show how I have changed due to the various happennings in my life (will surely do that), but what they had said was very demotivating.
I dint expect any reward or recognition from the college, but they could have atleast used few of the words that you have used.
Thanks, its really kind of you to reply back and boost my morale.
I would like to hear from you about the first person english that my college editor was talking about (who can use it? and in which situation?)
Sonit Singh

From India, Hyderabad
hi sonit,
u r indeed a gud writer , a writer posses the same energy level as of urs (it reflects in ur write up ) so keep writing , n i liked ur openness and straightforward nature........gud going....keep writing n keep posting ....i too love to write but generally poetries abt nature, ambition, dreams , success etc........so if i'll discover any gud poetry of mine i'll post it soon ...ok ...bye ..tkcr...... CHERRY

From India, Delhi
Hi cherry,
Thanks for replying back, it is indeed very motivating and will try to excel in the my yet to come articles...
Even I write poems,infact I have posted one poem today named Neither spring nor summer
check it out and give me your feedback regarding the same....Hope to read from you ...keep posting.
Sonit Singh

From India, Hyderabad
Hi Sonit,
I like your article. You are very forthright with your thoughts.
Not many can write down clearly all that we think. What is necessary is the clarity of mind. It is not necessary that you always have to be doing the right thing.
Here is something to reflect upon
Each one of us are born with a life purpose and the most important action you can take is in identifying and acknowledging your purpose.
To be on purpose means
- doing what you love to do
- doing what you are supposed to do
- accomplishing whats important to you
When you are on purpose, people, resources and opportunity come to you. Figure out what you love to do and make a living out of it.
Dream big and act on it

From India, Madras
Thanx for your feedback, I am happy that finally people have strted giving their views on my work.
I completely agree with your points and Presently I am doing what I want to do and what is expected out of me....Also with my dedication, I am sure I will get what I intend to get.
Sonit Singh

From India, Hyderabad
Yes sumit,

We all have to face this problem.

Now for example take my problem.

Though I am from Rajasthan, I have a good command over english and I was appointed as secretary to VP Flt Ops in a new airlines, there the people around me were of very reserved nature they just want that the other employees who are to be appointed should be of known to them so that they can have a full fledged group to play monopoly there.

When I recognized there, I opposed their this behaviour not directly but indirectly.

Then on their conspiracy I was transferred to Hr department, but no itnernal transfer letter is given to me since last 2.5 months. At the time of my joining to HR only two persons were there one exe and other VP, after three days the exe who was trainee his time was over and another lady was arranged as Asst. Mgr.

Now the apple of discard is that Since her joining she is trying to command over me, but as I am also having an experience of more than 7 years as Secretary and other similar posts in various organisations, I paid no heed to her.

My VP, when I told him about this sitatuion he didn't even tried to solve the problem and asked me what is the solution of this problem.

What the hell, if such kind of HR Head is there. Such mentality of person's, win bad name for the organization.

I am really ashamed to be under such organization and under such lower mentality persons.

Now are using me as a clerk and use to send me to other departments to help them, despite the concern department is having their own executive for that work, when any one come out for help he use to pinch him not to do and leave all work to me, no intellectual work is assigned to me, just they use me to open parcels and resumes we received and along with data feeding of those.

If any one can help me is God, may god bless them, because I believe in God and whoever has given me trouble, the company has suffered a lot, even it vanished its own existence from that place.

But I am still facing them and let me see how much extent they can reach to the pitch of their mentality and how much shit is in their mind. I don't know what will happen tomorrow, whether under such mentality is it possible for me to do certain unwanted thing...................

From India, Jaipur
hi Friend,
I donot understand why are you working with such an organization when the work you are doing is of no relevance to your designation and experience.
My friend you are rottening your skills by stagnating in this dirty place.
If you keep on believing in God the way you are right now then let me tell you,you wont gorw in your career.
God helps those who help themselves.
My suggestion would be to put down your papers tight now and look out for a job that respects your experience and helps you to grow in your career.
I might sound a bti harsh but that is the way to deal with the people of such cheep mentality in your office.
Sonit Singh

From India, Hyderabad

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