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22nd September 2016 From India, Mumbai
22nd September 2016 From India, Panipat
23rd September 2016 From India, New Delhi
As you said you are in the process of divorce ;
once you get divorce from court her claims will definitely be settled through Permanent Alimony.
Now question arises here is that maintenance can be claimed by both Parents & wife (including children's)(but quantum will be decided by court)
with regards to nominee, I would request you to keep your parents as nominee , making their will that in case of their death the benefits will pass on to you son/daughter if custody of your kids is with you.
So after you the benefits will go to the specified nominee by you (ie Parents), unless their is decree from the court stating that she shall be included. (This is only possible in the circumstances in case you die & their is no divorce decree passed in the court.)
Always keep in mind Parental Rights are more powerful than matrimonial Rights when your wife is working.
Consult lawyer other than lawyer who is handling your case regarding possible threats by law in favour of your wife.
Frankly speaking effects of westernisation has spoiled the environment
I would request you to keep your parents as nominee as it is safer option. (Ask HR of your company to fill PF nomination form on high priority basis, also take from HR Dept. the contact number of Consultant who is handling PF monthly submission of your company. Take photocopy of that proof, prepare file of the same along with your PF membership Id number & company PF Establishment code.
24th September 2016 From India, Mumbai
you can log in your UAN member account, and amend the nomination,
take a print of same, sign and submit to employer for digital attestetion
once digital approval is done, its done
there is no bar to nominate the parents or children in EPF
28th September 2016
There is an easy solution to your problem (as pointed out by Mikki and Abhijit
apart from updating your parents as nominees, you need to make a will giving all (or specific parts) of your property to your parents. In that case, the legal heirs are your parents and they will not be ordered by the court to give any part of the PF money to your wife.
Please note that the nominee forms filed before marriage are invalidated on marriage. But after marriage you can file fresh nomination forms to select any member of the family as your nominee....
29th September 2016 From India, Mumbai
My husband had extra marital affair in his office and everyday beatted me and burned my daughter by tea. Because I was not ready for mutual divorce.
He planned with his parents against me and made drama by getting prescription from his mother and comsumed tablets for attempt to suicide. I admitted him and make payment for all his treatment. But at last after 15 days he died by heartattact. I spend all money on him.
Right now I and my daughter arecompletely depended on my parents. God punished him. Now his foster family enjoying his all money. And my daughter and I are suffering.
Is it right to make separate from any rights of women and her kid by creating will or remove from nominee.
I gave him my all money during my job and spend 3 yrs with him. Now I don't have any rights on his any money. Because he left will and made his parents nominee.
As some people in above comment suggested him.
What should I do? Let me know. I also have a question.
I should kill my daughter and myself by suicide?
Because wife is only a body for playing by getting licence from marriage and men realised after marriage he have parents also now wife is nothing and kid nothing
Us harami ko dusri sadi krni thi. Isliye us kutte he mere aur mere bachchi k sath anyway kia. Achcha h mar gya. Kitna bada dhokha CIA muje. Aur uske foster family completely fraud kutto ki Farah maregi.
And u people please provide such information to misuse by non sense people. I think people gave will suggestion I think he also planning fraud with his wife
4th May 2018 From India
Now where are his parents, whose age are 75 and 80 years and their own daughter is 30 yrs old. And now my daughter is only 2 yrs old.
If men want to give his all money after his death to his parents and sister. Then what is a need of marriage and kid. Why he don't ask his physical and sexual need from sister and mother. Because in Indian law parental rights are more powerful to wife rights.
Then his sister and mother also fullful his sexual need because he had wife only for this.
This is shameful when man planed for violating wife and kid rights for his mean. Very shameful comment for the wife point of view.
4th May 2018 From India
I have request to all viewer. Please provide their comment on all above points and suggestions of topic.
So i could analys how much my husband and his fraud parents and sister were correct and me and my daughter are wrong.
And next viewer those are also planning for cheating his wife and kid must know how his wife and kid suffer after his suicide and parents enjoy with other son and daughter families.
17th May 2018 From India
17th May 2018 From India, Mumbai