Hr Assistant
Doondi Reddy
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Dear HR Veterans,

I received this E-Mail and was awestruck.......

How an HR must be -see the words of a Sales girl of a bookstall-thrilled.

Washington post and Times of India- people experience at CHENNAI.

An eyeopener for me -hope will be to many who are going to read



After the Temple Darshan at the Kapaleeswarar Koil at Mylapore, we entered the "Giri Trading stores" and started searching for this Book on "Thatva Bodha".

We found many people buying various Books and CDs and from their smart walks and accumulation of CDs from Abhang to Aruna Sairam and Bhajans to Bombay Jaishree, sent a nice feeling in us, that we have come to the right place indeed.

I was looking for this Book while my wife started collecting Bharathiar's songs and MS's Music. I searched everywhere for this Book.

There was this Girl, standing next to the Cashier, sincerely watching all our movements - a dark complexioned Girl, should be from a nearby Village, might be 17 or 18, should not have crossed 8th Std., might be out of poverty she is here.. All my Journalist's brain unnecessarily calculated about this Gullible Girl..and tho' she was repeatedly watching me, I ignored her and started searching for "Thathva Bodha".

I saw many books from "Sandhya Vandanam" to Swami VIvekananda's "Chicago Speech" but having spent a good 40 minutes. I looked at her, she also looked at me curiously.

I did not asked her, knowing fully well that such a girl cannot have any idea of anything, leave alone "Thathva Bodah"."Sir, may I help you?" (in Tamil)

"Yes. I am looking for 'Thatva Bodha' "

"Sanskrit Text or English/Sanskrit?"

God..she knows. "Sanskrit & English"

"Do you like to have the Publication from Chinmaya Mission or Indu Publications or by Ramakrishna Mutt?"

"I don't know..I just want to only Learn you see.. I don't really know indeed"

"Do you read Tamil Sir?"

"Yes I am a Tamilian " (thinking to myself how most of my life time I like to act in most Other places that I am not)

"Then Sir, you can take this"..she ran to the shelf where I had searched for 30 minutes, removed the books in the front and came out with a Book in Tamil. "This one in Tamil by N.Sivaraman by Indu Publications in fact is simple and wonderful. You have the Sanskrit Text too inside."

My God! Why did I under estimate such a Genius. Just because of my Arrogance that I am an NRI. Or Just because I presumed such a Black, dark complexioned, gullible girl, who would have come for this job out of absolute poverty, wouldn't have any idea of "Thatva Bodha".

I decided to change my attitude and realized that I am absolutely an 'Idiot' at this moment in front of this wonderful girl and submitted myself in all humility. "Madam, I really don't have any idea of even who wrote 'Thatva Bodha' till yesterday. I just attended a lecture on this subject and was fascinated by the lecture and hence....."

"Did you attend Goda Venkateswara Sastri's lecture in Bharathiya Vidya Bhavan?" "Oh God, How did you know?"

"He regularly takes classes on such subjects. In fact he is one of the best Sir, in the city on such subjects."

"You are interested in such subjects?"

"Yes Sir, I read a lot about Swami Vivekananda and Ramakrishna and Thathva Bodha incidentally is my favourite Subject"

"Do you mean to say you have read Thatva Bodha?" "I have read this one by Sivaraman. Once you read it you won't feel like keeping that book on the table at all."

"Why what is so great about this Book?"

"Sir,you must be joking that you don't know about 'Thatva Bodha'."

"Really. I accept my ignorance."

My wife was watching from the corner, admiring all her CD collections.

"Sir,according to me, if you read this it gives the entire Vedanthic Saramsam and to say it in-one-word you become a bit more humble in life, leaving Ahamkaram once for all."

"Is it a fact that reading this simple book one would get so humble?"

"Of course one should be involved totally into the text. Needs a lot of conviction and devotion."

My wife joined the conversation and she felt this girl is indeed a very very talented intelligent girl, so she told me,

"Why don't you interview her for Washington Post? Why at all you should think of Paris Hilton?"

I also felt that I owe something to her.. So, I asked her whether she can spare sometime for an interview.

She politely refused saying "My boss is to give me permission. Besides, many people are looking for guidance or help, like you and hence I have to go."

"What is your name?"


My wife's admiration for her devotion to duty and her total involvement in her work, made her go direct to the Boss and said, "Sir, that girl Kalaivani."

"Yes very hard working Girl."

"This is my husband Viswanath."

"Nice meeting you Sir"

"He is the Senior Journalist in Washington Post."The Boss stood up."Washington Post?"

"Yes Sir. I would like to interview this girl. I am highly impressed with her ethics."

The Boss called her. Time was 5:45 Pm. "Kalaivani, they have come all the way from USA., They would like to spend some time with you. Can you?"

"Sir, there are so many customers waiting for some guidance. as it is a rush time. If they can come again tomorrow."

"OK. I can come again tomorrow."I came back next day morning leaving all my appointments with 'Times of India 'and “Madras Press Club “ just to see this girl. It was no rush hour. My wife and myself found out. Kalaivani is from a small village near Arcot. She has 5 sisters, she being is the eldest. Her father was a drunkard and he died a few years ago caring for none of them. Her mother used to work as a helper in Masonry and passed away two years back, leaving all the 6 on the streets.

This girl who had completed her 9th std decided to search for a job and 'Giri Trading' came forward to help her out. She brought up all her 5 sisters with her and with her meagre salary she is taking care of them. All the 5 sisters are going to a nearby Chennai Corporation School.

"Kalaivani. But when did you get this enthusiasm to learn about 'ThatvaBodha'?"

"Sir after joining here, I decided that the best way to be of help to the customers is to know the Subject first. I took small Books on Ramana, Ramakrishna, Swami Vivekananda and started reading. I found the subject so fascinating..I decided to read other books in Tamil like Bhagavad Gita, and Viveka Choodamani. Thats how...."

"What is your salary?"

"Rs 2,500/ a month Sir."

"Are you able to manage all your expenses with the 5 sisters?"

"Not at all Sir, but the Boss helps me a lot."

"What is your aim in Life?"

"I want all my sisters to get education. Then they would easily get employment. Is it not Sir?"

"If I give you Rs 10,000 per month, for meeting all your expenses, would that suffice?"

"It is indeed too much, but I would accept it only through my Boss. “We took her to the Boss and told him that we would like to send Rs.10,000 every month so that all her sisters' education would be completed.

The Boss said "She deserves it Sir. You can trust me - I will hand over the amount to her every month or alternately you can open an account in her name and start transferring to the account."

My friend John Paul, who is the Regional Manager of 'Times of India” had also come with me. He said, "You have done a good thing", My wife said, "I pray that 'Karpagambal' helps Kalaivani to become an expert in 'Vedantha' and start giving lectures in USA . We can arrange for her lectures."

We left wonder struck! If we go into the interiors of India, how many more 'Jewels' like Kalaivani can be found!!

I really became humbled!

There are thousands of unsung heroes in the depth of India and everywhere on this earth. Each and every one of us should help however humble it may be, to bring them out in the fore.

One Ubiquitous Energy / God has become all therefore whatever exists is infinite.

Dear Ramkishore,
As I informed you.... there is a lot of hidden talent in India.. who are working for other countries....
Talent is like a perfume bottle.. You cannot sense its fragrance until the cap is opened...
When opened... it spreads slowly...
Find this attachment which shares more facts about India.. I has posted this before also..

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A very apt & fascinating posting Ramkishore.

There's a saying in Telugu which translates to: 'If education stops with Knowledge, the Original Intelligence itself is lost'.

And here we have a simple village girl 'imparting'--so to say--some 'gyan' to the honorable Washington Post journalist.

This posting also conveys another subtle message--if one wants to really 'learn', keeping aside the 'ego/ahamkaram' is an essential part of the process, as exhibited by the journalist.

I recollect a similar situation in the life of Adi Sankaracharya who was accosted by a 'sudra' while the Swami was on his way for an important mission and when the Swami asked the 'sudra' to give way to him, the 'sudra' responded back with a counter-question: are you asking my body to move from here or the soul residing in it--which is the same as your soul--to move from here. Guess many would have read about this incident--and what the Swami did next.

Keep posting :-)



Dear Ramkishore, Its really a heart touching and inspiring to one and all. Regards, Santhosh M
Welcome to India,
In india you will also find many mechanics who give their views on the latest bike model released , engine released, in a supermarket you will not find the channa dal but that salesgirl will immediately know where channa dal is kept.
So this is a normal thing that in due course of time, people get acquainted with the job setting / profile that is required.

Thanks for such a great post .
Generally many of the Indian Youngsters are not exposed to New things in life, if we get admitted to school in 1st STD, till 10th Guardians are not bothered to change the school.
Recently i too went back my native village and asked the principle, what else you are teaching to Children apart from Book syllabus, he smiled and said, this is not CITY we cannot afford new technologies, when i asked him that i am not talking about Technology am talking about EXTRA curriculum activities to be right brain (out of 4 schools in my village no body encourages ART apart from Drawing book).
I strongly feel, if a kid is good at art work, he'll be a good self decision maker.

Dear Mr. Doondi Reddy,
Apart from blaming the method of schooling... Just think about your contribution...
A question here arises is..... a very simple one...if you donot think that I'm blaming you or I'm against you,,
Tell me frankly.. Are you applying whatever you have studied in your school..???????????????
If the answer is YES..just share one or two examples
If the answer is NO... it means you have to start putting it in your daily life
Other than addition and subtraction, here is a simple application of what you can start with.
Hope you remember that you would have studied parts of your body and sense organs in your KG section
You would have also studied the different sections of the sweet, sour, bitter etc etc
Try out a tablet without water and find out yourself where exactly you'll not find its taste....
(Hint: Revise your childhood chapters)
Hope you would find it interesting..... :D

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