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A day good or bad depends on what`s your perception and criteria of good and bad.

You lost your purse, your`s bad day but the one who found, it was his good day.The very day is same, neither good or bad. Its we who declare and classify it as good or bad.We can`t have a good day or bad day because its not in our hand.It in totality depends on circumstances.The things beyond your control.

You decided to make this day your good day but suddenly something turns up against you and the day proved to be a bad one.Now your are more frustrated then you were before the choice.

Some times it seem impossible to have a good day for weeks because a day has to fulfill so many criteria for being good.

The question here is what would happen if all your days would become good by an overnight miracle.Give it a thought...Now you are starting your day with a motive to make it good but what then when all your days are already good.How will you cope up with the boredom of all good.what will be your motivation.If you answer is is " I will live the day" then why not to live it now. why to wait for a miracle. Why not to enjoy every moment.What ever it is ......good or bad, no point of choice should come in picture.

Think If it would have been in our hand, Would you have ever chosen a bad day...no. Every body would have chosen a good day and to paint a realistic picture 7 billion people can`t have a good day on a single day. And what`s the criteria to decide that the choice we are making is correct or not,Even the choice which you think is correct could be a fetal disaster. One famous story goes like this "One day a boy was sent by his father to fetch some water from the near by well.As his mother was very ill so his father asked him to bring water as fast as possible.The boy went out and he was dwelling water from the well, when an old fellow asked him a favor.He asked him to fetch some water for him also.As he was very old to do it by him self. He helped the poor fellow and by the time he reached home with water his mother died. His choice was right on one hand and wrong on other.

Enjoy the day, to live it to fullest is important.Not to choose it a good or bad day.Don`t struck in the circle of choosing a day to be good or bad but try to make most of it whether its bad or good.If its going good cherish it..if it going bad cherish it.Because even bad has its own charm.

For long, the time from the day self help movement started humans have been trying to avoid a bad day or a negative feeling but let the bad day come...Face it..Enjoy it...ultimately its is not important that how many day you have turned into good or bad but how many days have you lived your life to its fullest.

Ashish
18th August 2012 From India, Delhi
Dear Ashish,
Nice post.
Our life is like a balance sheet.Our birth is our opening balance and death is our closing balance.In between we smile,cry,think,judge.So your last sentence is enough......i am living my life....enjoy life.
Thanks & Regards
Parth
18th August 2012 From India, Delhi
Hello Asish,
You have brought out a bold approach on how to take GOOD and BAD that comes in one's life.
While GOOD and BAD are inherently what they would be, the key lies in how we take them.
That is in the words of Guru Stephen Covey, we should control our reaction and proactively face it.
In other words how quickly we come to normalcy is what matters.
Speaking of a stable mind, the great Bhagwat Geeta maintains that ....sukha-duhkhesu samah sanga-vivarjitah... is the most desired behavior. It conveys that the most desired behavior is the one where happiness and sorrow are treated as equal.
In Tamil Language the great Thiruvalluvar says one must attempt to laugh away at adversities
- ....Idukkan Varungal Naguga.....
V.Raghunathan..................................... ....Navi Mumbai
21st August 2012 From India
Just check this video to understand the power of choice
It is better to - YouTube
24th August 2012 From India, Chennai
Yes Mr Asish, Patience and Stability of mind help us to remain unperturbed even in trying situations. V.Raghunathan......................................Navi Mumbai
25th August 2012 From India
Mr. Ashish
Nice Thought OR Nice Xperience.......????
Whatever it is...... the Stuff is Good Becouse After Reading Your Paras I Declare My Day is Good..
Coz I Cme to Knw the Defination Of GOOD Day & Bad Day....!!!!
Thanks
Mangal

30th October 2012 From India, Bhopal
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