Hi All,
My own ADVISE to all after my observation and gathering of information in several companies, happenings of this nature,
is that "Male staff members at any cost should be extra careful with lady staff in any company while dealing with them in Office.I do not want cite any cases I know of, but this is the only advice I can give to male staff members" Any moment anything may happen and the entire event may be wrongly or completely misinterpreted or extra fittings will be added. Always remember "Prevention is powerful than cure" Let this Ashoo's case be an eye opener. Sometimes "one minute happiness will give you later hours of misery"Let your communication be always be positive, polite and purposeful. If anything goes wrong with a lady staff or she doesn't listen to you, always refer the matter to your higher authorities, let them take their own decision. And even when the decision is adverse to you, please accept it gracefully.Only time will tell you who is right or wrong. God is a great leveler and certainly you will have your day. I FULLY ENDORSE S. KHDIR'S STATEMENT.
Kapil Dev, for example, who brought first World Cup to India in cricket was accused of taking a bribe of Rs.25 lakhs to fix a cricket match.This allegations was made by a past President of BCCI! While giving an interview to BBC,Kapil Dev literally wept and cried before the camera and said he was innocent. I was one of those who was moved by that scene. Subsequently, it was proved he was not involved in match fixing and the person who accused was sent to jail!
It was again Kapil Dev, who started ICL, with the noble intention of helping cricket players, who could not get chance to play for India and had no means of livelihood. Subsequently. BCCI threatened the players of ICL to quit it and started IPL, which has become a great success. But it was Kapil Dev's idea that was borrowed by BCCI! Very recently,all the past players were given huge amount of money except Kapil! I personally feel, this great cricketer, who also got the "Best cricketer of the Century" award bu Wisden Cricket Club of England, (Of all the cricket players who played for 100 years, Kapil was considered as the best player both on the and off the field by the judges) would be suitably rewarded by God, putting BCCI into shame.
So have faith in you, let your communication be straight forward, polite and positive. Always keep a distance from lady staff in Office as a matter of abundant precaution.
M.J. SUBRAMANYAM, BANGALORE
From India, Bangalore
24My own ADVISE to all after my observation and gathering of information in several companies, happenings of this nature,
is that "Male staff members at any cost should be extra careful with lady staff in any company while dealing with them in Office.I do not want cite any cases I know of, but this is the only advice I can give to male staff members" Any moment anything may happen and the entire event may be wrongly or completely misinterpreted or extra fittings will be added. Always remember "Prevention is powerful than cure" Let this Ashoo's case be an eye opener. Sometimes "one minute happiness will give you later hours of misery"Let your communication be always be positive, polite and purposeful. If anything goes wrong with a lady staff or she doesn't listen to you, always refer the matter to your higher authorities, let them take their own decision. And even when the decision is adverse to you, please accept it gracefully.Only time will tell you who is right or wrong. God is a great leveler and certainly you will have your day. I FULLY ENDORSE S. KHDIR'S STATEMENT.
Kapil Dev, for example, who brought first World Cup to India in cricket was accused of taking a bribe of Rs.25 lakhs to fix a cricket match.This allegations was made by a past President of BCCI! While giving an interview to BBC,Kapil Dev literally wept and cried before the camera and said he was innocent. I was one of those who was moved by that scene. Subsequently, it was proved he was not involved in match fixing and the person who accused was sent to jail!
It was again Kapil Dev, who started ICL, with the noble intention of helping cricket players, who could not get chance to play for India and had no means of livelihood. Subsequently. BCCI threatened the players of ICL to quit it and started IPL, which has become a great success. But it was Kapil Dev's idea that was borrowed by BCCI! Very recently,all the past players were given huge amount of money except Kapil! I personally feel, this great cricketer, who also got the "Best cricketer of the Century" award bu Wisden Cricket Club of England, (Of all the cricket players who played for 100 years, Kapil was considered as the best player both on the and off the field by the judges) would be suitably rewarded by God, putting BCCI into shame.
So have faith in you, let your communication be straight forward, polite and positive. Always keep a distance from lady staff in Office as a matter of abundant precaution.
M.J. SUBRAMANYAM, BANGALORE
From India, Bangalore
you seem to be a pioneer of such experiences, aren't you?? Mr. Subramanyam!! Hhe hhe ... ha ha ha ha....... but please mind they are only the exceptions no matter whether male or female, colours may be different but the painting will be the same.......... so never generalise such issues........
Have a nice time............
From India, Bangalore
Have a nice time............
From India, Bangalore
Hey Anshoo, As a senior u thought it is ur right to be rude to ur subordinates??????????? Whats wrong if ur superiors also thought in ur lines n used their might? Think it over buddy.
From India, Jamnagar
From India, Jamnagar
BSSV,
It appears you are inexperienced and have had no occasion to experience such unpleasant things in life. But my statement is based on experiences of many people whom I have contacted and observed in my life. That is why I recount such incidence and write here. But you have to start observing people and situations keenly and try to learn something from such events. Your intellect will also sharpen.
I have seen my friend - a VP in a prestigious company- had to be sacked (very recently 8 months ago) because he just made a suggestion to one of his lady staff about her dress, that too in private. It was a sane advice to a daughter from a father like person. But she spread and made a mountain of a mole. Ultimately the boss was asked to leave!!
That your letter is sarcastically worded shows that your emotional intelligence is low. Please experience life in much bigger way and read my letter again. Wisdom may dawn on you. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO FEEL ONE'S WAY VERY CAUTIOUSLY IN LIFE.
M.J. SUBRAMANYAM, BANGALORE
From India, Bangalore
It appears you are inexperienced and have had no occasion to experience such unpleasant things in life. But my statement is based on experiences of many people whom I have contacted and observed in my life. That is why I recount such incidence and write here. But you have to start observing people and situations keenly and try to learn something from such events. Your intellect will also sharpen.
I have seen my friend - a VP in a prestigious company- had to be sacked (very recently 8 months ago) because he just made a suggestion to one of his lady staff about her dress, that too in private. It was a sane advice to a daughter from a father like person. But she spread and made a mountain of a mole. Ultimately the boss was asked to leave!!
That your letter is sarcastically worded shows that your emotional intelligence is low. Please experience life in much bigger way and read my letter again. Wisdom may dawn on you. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO FEEL ONE'S WAY VERY CAUTIOUSLY IN LIFE.
M.J. SUBRAMANYAM, BANGALORE
From India, Bangalore
Greetings of the day
So far Mr Anshoo has received many answers/responses by many experienced person and our seniors which I believe are enough to mend the ways for him. Now it is important to have any response from the one who allowed us to discuss this concern/problem but as i have noticed he has lost or dont wanna reply, therefore, I request him to respond once.
Have a great day ahead
From India, Gurgaon
So far Mr Anshoo has received many answers/responses by many experienced person and our seniors which I believe are enough to mend the ways for him. Now it is important to have any response from the one who allowed us to discuss this concern/problem but as i have noticed he has lost or dont wanna reply, therefore, I request him to respond once.
Have a great day ahead
From India, Gurgaon
Hi Anil,
Thanks for the support. I would like BSSV to read about Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky, World bank President Paul Wolfowitz and his girlfriend Shaha Ali Ritz, etc who lost their jobs/positions because of ladies!!
In India we read in papers about Sri. N.D.Tiwari being asked to give blood samples under the direction of the Court. Then there were allegations about Sri. Abhishek Manu Singhvi. There are many such incidents happening in India and World and I do not want to mention about them for obvious reasons.
But there is sufficient opportunity for us to learn from these. We can learn and increase our knowledge from these provided our mind antenna is kept always wide open.
M.J. SUBRAMANYAM, BANGALORE
From India, Bangalore
Thanks for the support. I would like BSSV to read about Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky, World bank President Paul Wolfowitz and his girlfriend Shaha Ali Ritz, etc who lost their jobs/positions because of ladies!!
In India we read in papers about Sri. N.D.Tiwari being asked to give blood samples under the direction of the Court. Then there were allegations about Sri. Abhishek Manu Singhvi. There are many such incidents happening in India and World and I do not want to mention about them for obvious reasons.
But there is sufficient opportunity for us to learn from these. We can learn and increase our knowledge from these provided our mind antenna is kept always wide open.
M.J. SUBRAMANYAM, BANGALORE
From India, Bangalore
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