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Bhushan Dahanukar
Service - Hr Professional
Ashwini Rege
Hr Professional
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Dear Friends,

This is a practical case study which is happening with me..

I would like to take your views on following issues. Please give me your suggestion what I have to do ??/

Right know my boss offered me a new role of trainer in which I have to do traveling all over India, to give the Level 1 training of the employees as currently I am handling payroll and HR admin management in the organization but I am not quite satisfied about my profile because of lack of learning in the same as my main areas of interest are recruitment and performance management. Because of some family issue I have to reject there proposals, in that case, they clearly conveyed me they will not promote me further in monetary terms or in individuals growth wise. In a very rude language my boss boss’s has conveyed this message to me, as my bosses are politically corrupt bosses; they don’t want my growth because of their own insecurities. They have just eye washed our big boss,, just misusing him. Could you please advise, what steps I have to take in this case.

I am also looking for opportunities, but they are not coming because of my bad time

The boss is very bad, big boss is unable to understand me, he only hears them only. Please advice, I am in trouble.

best regards,


From India, Gurgaon
Dear Meenu,

First thing remove from mind, there is no bad time or good time.

We ourself try to grab opportunity any time.

Dont Panic or get frasutrated.

Your problem little serious and unfair treated by boss & big boss.

At this stage, be calm & cool and listen everthing whatever told to you.

Since u dont availed opportunity to travel accross country because of house problems. Whatever profile you have, pl continue with the same and enjoy yourself but be focus on your interest. There is nothing any low / small job in this world. Important, how we passionately doing.

I suggest you continue with current profile and enlarge your job showing your involvement in recruitment & performance managment. Initially, be like coordinator with your Boss. Once you gain their confidence , they will definately assign this Job.

During my begining of career, I was handling payroll of 900 employees and PF & ESIC annual returns. But I am focussed on IR & HR job. Slowly, I shown my area of interest and start coordinating thses activities. But my present profile remain unchanged. AFter some years, I relieved from earlier profile and looked after higher job.

If things are not happening, silently look for better job without knowing anyone and then quit. Ultimate, our career is more important.


Bhushan Dahanukar

From India, Mumbai
Hi Meenu ,
I can understand your situation. My sugesstion is that you should focus on the job at hand. Please continue to do well in your present assignment. At the same time try to explore possibilities for you to take over assignments in your preferred work area. Also you must continue to learn more about Recruitment and Performance Management systems to enhance your knowledge that could prove beneficial in future.
Give some more time for the current situation to improve. If the scenario does not change for better , you need to look for career advancement opportunities somewhere else which match your aspirations. The key for you to overcome this situation is to maintian a Postive and balanced outlook.

Hi, Bhushan/Ashwini
I understand it very well, even I tried to implement this practically but failed to do so, I am so much depressed at this moment, simply because of lack of satisfaction. My mind always thinks where would my future, I have no career, If I continue with this, I have no future outside the this organization, I wanna worth enough to judge my existing profile market value.
I wanna analyze and increase my market potential.
I will focus whatever you suggest, but sometimes these things makes me so depressed, I feel like just quit, don’t want to work anymore………….
Lets hope everything be in order in future.

From India, Gurgaon
Hi Meenu , All the best with your future assignment!!. I am sure things will work out for you.. Ashwini

Dear Ashwini,
Pl dont worry , things will improve in future. Be patient for some time.
Whatever job you have, love with your job. Dont get depressed.
If you feel depression all the time, I suggest do Dhyan Yoga in the morning or evening. It will help you to feel freshness all the time.

From India, Mumbai
Hello Meenu,
Your case is a typical situation of an organization who wants to have short term gains to aim big. This is good but unless all the people concerned are not taken into confidence by boss, there is bound to be some friction / conflict amongst your goals and organisational goals.
My experience says that you need to circumvent your present interests and concenterate on the job at hand. This will give increase your employability status. Since life is a full circle I am sure that your boss's are going to recogonize your worth and reward you in the final analysis.
So have patience, do with perseverence, and have purity in your thoughts and deeds.
Always seek Almighty's bleesings.
Best of luck.

From India, Delhi
If you need to stick to the Job then go in for distance learning and increase your academic profile during this lean period.This will help you and also help you to tide over your problems.Studying will boost your confidence.
With Regards
V.Sounder Rajan
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From India, Bangalore
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