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Raj Kumar Hansdah
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This is really worst and pathetic situation any way appreciate your decision of changing job. I think you do not have any problem only he is using your weakness, show him your real face with strength tell him you will pay only in 6 months as you have acceptance of same. Please consult to your family and lodge a complaint of harrasment and keep record of all text sms, before taking the step warn him and take your family in confidence. I hope you have taken loan for family they will really help you and make you out of trouble.
Hope the above suggestion will help you.
From India, New Delhi
1615I cant take my family help, because i had married against my parents. I am a south indian from a village in Mangalore & my husband was an Maharastrain, my husband used to drink & harras me daily also i had to go under abortion when i was 5mths since the child had died inside stomach because of my husbands harassment, I have recently consulted the lawyer for filing the case. & we were suppose to file it last week, as it was mutually agreed, at this stage the boss of the previous company had helped us to get the procedure for. Now I am all alone, & the boss of previous company is aware off all this. He is 61yrs old, also he has a daughter who is elder then me.
From India, Mumbai
aamir9993022981U dont need to worry. He is 61 years old man, HE`s juz attracted towards u. i think u juz need to worn him first... then u can take any legal action too..
From India, Bhopal
sonusurHi, Please provide your mails ID so we can suggest you good. This is is pathetic situational you have.
From India, Gurgaon
sharad HRDo not panic go to police station meet sho and describe your concern also lodge a complaint against your boss and be tough do not panic.
Hope you will get nice officer who will help you to sort your problem
From India, New Delhi
Raj Kumar HansdahDear Smitha
Do not worry. No one can exploit you and your situation.
I presume your boss must be the owner of the company. I have always highlighted the fact that how small time unscrupulous element register a company and call themselves corporate honchos. The person is a wolf in sheep's clothing.
Let him do whatever he can; by legal means; or seek to pay the outstanding in monthly instalments. If anything, you can always go to the Police and the Law. Meanwhile make your own arrangements for refunding the amount.
Now that you have another better paying job, you can approach banks for personal loans and repay the amount.
The important thing is - not to feel helpless and become a victim. Be strong; this is not such a great calamity which you can not overcome. Look at how you have faced life bravely so far, AT YOUR OWN TERMS. This may be the last hurdle towards leading an independent, empowered life.
I am sure, all members will support you and come up with better suggestions and ways to overcome this temporary problem.
From India, Delhi
dvcshekaraHi, Smitha. Be bold and cool !!!. As suggested by friends, 1) repay loan by borrowing from bank 2). Change your contact no. once repaid. rgds chandru
From India, Bangalore
Cite ContributionDear Smitha,
No matter how trapped you feel, you are not in a static state. If this problem had started, it would end as well. Please focus on solution.
Firstly speak to a lawyer, someone whom you can trust and not just anyone who is professionally sound. The lawyer can show you the way-out, as your ex-boss is merely creating a pressure situation.
I understand you may not be in situation of arranging the amount, but do keep that in mind as the top priority. Arrange it as small payment from your friends and family and build on that total amount. Pay him as early as possible. With the salary you are drawing, it’s easy for you to get a fast loan from any bank, if you can look for it. Such fast loans are often offered by credit cards, which are processed really fast. The rate of interest may go up to 17-18%, but do not bother about that, in this situation. Just pay him back. Once you are out of it, you can always develop your finances.
Finally stay firm. I do see it in your post, you have already taken the right step of changing your job. Do not show any fear or retaliation on any of his threats. Stay firm with the legal and official proceeding. Please document every message and mail he sends. Save all the communication with him for any future reference.
Wish you all the best!
From India, Mumbai
1. File a police complaint for mental torture.
2. If any loan was taken from the company the the same should have been recovered before you left the company. Nothing legally can be done there.
3. Contact the bosses daughter if necessary, tell her the fathers intention.
4. Your husband is a loser dump him, get married, to someone else.
From India, Pune