Ash Mathew
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Hi Friends,

In today's competitive era we all rush behind success and start compromising with our self, but sometime everything get abortive due to the habbit of concentrating on every minute things.

Friends, hereby i am recapitalizing the strategies provided by many authors to make our life wonderful by changing our prospective and by doing self management.
So, appended are some problems we face in day to day life to which we are furnishing with resolution.

1. When little people try to drive you down, apply below strategies:-
· You win when you refuse to fight with petty people.
· Expect to be sniped at. It's a proof you are proliferating.
· Remind yourself that snipers are usually sick.

2. When that "I-have not-got-what-it-takes" feeling creep up on you, Think again
positive and big. If you think you are week, you are, if you think you are
inadequate you are, so never underestimate urself rather allign urself on the way
of self motivation. For proper resolution, look to appended tools.

· Look Important - How u looks outside has a lot to do how u feels inside.
· Concentrate on your assets and learn to supercharge urself. For this you can
look in to the mirror and loudly repeat your good things. ex: I am a good
speaker- 3 times, and it will turn u on.
· Put other people in proper prospective.

3. When an argument seems inevitable or you are penetrating in the argument.

· Ask urself "Honestly now, is this really important to argue on this matter.
· Remind you will never gain anything from an argument.

4. When you feel defeated and abortive.

· Regard the setback a lesson, learn from it, use it to propel you forward.
· Blend persistence with experimentation. Back off and start fresh with new
· approach.

5. When you feel your progress on the job is slowing down.

· Think i can do better, the best is not unattainable. There is ground for
improvement and doing it better.

6. Take time to confer with urself "Sit in silent for some time".

7. Lastly, Develop the habbit of pampering urself and try to keep less expectaion with people.
Everyone over HR cite will be aware of these things, but my motive to collate this particular matter is to once again take your focus on self improvement.

Hi everyone kindly contribute and provide your feedback over the same.


Dear Rach,
Trust me - its really motivating.
I have never thought of a few thinsg tho - that I may have to re consider:
You win when you refuse to fight with petty people
Look Important - How u looks outside has a lot to do how u feels inside
Ask urself "Honestly now, is this really important to argue on this matter
Think i can do better, the best is not unattainable
Those were great lines...
Something that I feel that I can add to it - "When you learn from your mistakes, you gain experience, and after a while - it appears that you have not made any mistake, but have had a lot of experience"
:-) Keep posting such wonderful motivating thoughts

Hi Ash,
Exactly i feel the same way, and you wont believe after reading this book, whenever i am on the urge of arguing, i always perceive is it really important. Sometime we get furious on minor things which hardly makes difference in life i.e when food is not of our choice, when friend is not able to call up, when we have been asked something which we are reluctant to do, so similarly there are many things which can be avoided with only single thought.
Whenever i feel demotivated, i start praising myself by looking in to the mirror, which really helps.
and totally agree that day to days mistakes congregate in the form of new learning.
Ash, sometime in relationships also, it become imperative to avoid minor minor things and have to look the bigger one.
So, finally we can say we are on the route of self-improvement.:neutral:
hi,viewers let's add up something.

Hi Ashish, It’s my pleasure. We appreciate each other’s view. and we assure to share knowledge over here. Regards, Rach:p
I can contribute more if you want..If someone slap you and you welcome it then think you are going to be Mahatma Gandhi.
Hello Sir, Would like to present gratitude for so much concern and feedback. We always invite suggestions and advices from the senior people.:p
Hi Riya,
It's true self improvement is the part of day to day voyage. Riya, it is trivial to have a control on ourself and to make ourself satisfied.
Riya, we believe on the philosphy that if you wanna keep expectation then keep it from you, bcz you are the one holding the key of your own lock.
And hi, your implementation of only one point will solve my purpose of quoting it.

Now you are embarassing me (i m not senior). Before you guys kick me out of this forum, I should run away.. no offensive! Cheers!
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