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Hey all,

Read this and share with me what you are. :D

I'm a coffee Bean for sure. :)

Carrot, Egg or Coffee Bean?

A daughter complained to her father about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In one he placed carrots, in the second he placed eggs, and the last he placed ground coffee beans. He let them sit and boil, without saying a word. The daughter sucked her teeth and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing. In about twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them a bowl. Then he ladled the coffee out and placed it in a mug.

Turning to her he asked. "Darling, what do you see."

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

He brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. She smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

She humbly asked. "What does it mean Father?"

He explained that each of them had faced the same adversity, boiling water, but each reacted differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. But after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans were unique however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you," he asked his daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean? "

How about you my friend? Are you the carrot that seems hard, but with pain and adversity do you wilt and become soft and lose your strength?

Are you the egg, which starts off with a malleable heart? Were you a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a divorce, or a layoff have you become hardened and stiff. Your shell looks the same, but are you bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and heart?

Or are you like the coffee bean? The bean changes the hot water, the thing that is bringing the pain, to its peak flavor when it reaches 212 degrees Fahrenheit. When the water gets the hottest, it just tastes better.

If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and make things better around you.

How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?

Give me your views- What r you?



I used to be carrot when i started my career, became a egg in the middle of my career and now I have accomplished being a coffee bean :D
It happens with most of us.
We are genenrally carrot at the start, even I was like that.
But some people remains same through out their life a carrot, soft.
Let us see if some more people share with us what they are.

Hello Everyone :)
I think I would relate to being an egg... I started off being soft and vulnerable...
Like an egg, my outer being appears just the same from outside- soft but I feel determination and sheer strength flowing through me now :)
I don't feel few bitter experiences in my professional career have made me "bitter" or "stiff" in the negative sense but yeah, they certainly have made me strong, determined and unrelenting instead of wanting to give up :)
For me, being a bean means reaching that level of perfection when I'd be completely unaffected by events around me. Striving for that stage :)
@Archnahr- Thanks for starting the beautiful thread :)

Beautiful!! I will share this story with my daughter.
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