Vaish
7

When someone is giving you a feedback...how would you react???? Will that reaction encourage others to give feedback?????
Here are some hints on how to react in a positive way when you receive a feedback (especially a negative feedback)
1. Accept criticism unconditionally.
2. Listen to them and give approriate reactions through verbal/non-verbal communcation...
3 Express gratitude for feedback.
4 Don't take the feedback as a personal attack/offense.
5 Listen to the person who is giving the feedback.
6 Continue to ask for feedback.
7.sk for clarifications; or specific events.
8 Inform the person about the changes that you made.
9 Tell others of the help you received.
10.Acknowledge positive results to this feedback.
Some good quotes on positive thinking;;;
A positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.
Its only your attitude, not your aptitude that deteremines your altitude.

From India, Bangalore
Rajat Joshi
101

Hi Anu,

That'z was a good one...

How about the same for those who give negative feedback...believe me i find it difficult to manage it :D

1. Get your emotions under control. You don't want to critique someone else's actions when you are angry or upset. You are likely to say something you don't really mean or to react poorly to something that is said to you.

2. Find a private place. No one wants to receive negative feedback in front of others. Sometimes it is unavoidable, but that should be a last resort. Take a meeting in your office, call the person into a vacant conference room, step into the lunch room if it is vacant.

3. Focus on their actions, not on the person. You create an immediate barrier when you criticize the person. Focus instead on what you want to change. Focus on their performance.

4. Be specific. It does no good to tell someone 'you have a bad attitude'. You need to identify specific actions the person took or specific things they said if you want them to understand.

5. Be timely. Negative feedback should be given as soon as possible after the event. If you see an employee being rude to a customer, don't wait until their annual performance review to tell them. How many other customers will they have angered in the meantime? Call them into your office right away.

6. Be calm. Don't yell and scream. The other person will become defensive and won't hear what you are trying to tell them.

7. Reaffirm your faith in the person. This reinforces step three, but here you tell them that you still have faith in them as a person and in their abilities; it's just their performance you want them to change. Say something like "you're a good customer service rep, so I'm sure you see the need to be more patient with customers".

8. Stop talking. After you have told the person what specific, recent actions were inappropriate, and why, stop talking. Give the other person a chance to respond to or refute your statements. Listen to what they have to say.

9. Define positive steps. Agree on what future performance is appropriate for the employee. If there are specific things the employee needs to start doing or needs to stop doing, be sure they are clearly identified. If there is something you need to do, perhaps additional training for the employee, agree on that as well.

10. Get over it. After you have given the negative feedback and agreed on a resolution, move on with the job. Don't harbor ill will toward the employee because they made a mistake. Don't hover over them out of fear that they may make another mistake. Monitor their performance as you do all employees, but don't obsess.

Tips:

Giving negative feedback is never easy, but if done properly it isn't unpleasant.

What You Need:

A private place.

A calm mind.

Patience.

Your sense of humor.

Cheers

Rajat

From India, Pune
Vaish
7

hi Rajat,
Thanks for your appreciation...
Your posting is really informative....I have one small doubt...
Though we take so much steps to give a positive feedback, and a negative feedback in a postive way, i guess it all depends on the person who takes the feedback..right?
So..imagine if the recipient is not able to accept such constructive criticisms,,,what will be his reaction..and how do we try to manage such situations???
Any answers plz....

From India, Bangalore
bala1
20

Hi Rajat. Anu,
Both the posts are pretty informative and thought provoking. They show you two sides of the same coin. One about listening to a negative feedback and another one on giving a negative feedback (which is pretty tough indeed as Rajat has stated).
Anu, you are mostly right - it all depends on the person who is taking the feedback. It does depend on the guy giving feedback also and he should be giving it in a constructive way.
Bala

From India, Madras
Rajat Joshi
101

Hi Anu,
Bala has answered your query..but you know it's a combination of both ..here the Manager needs to know his subordinate well enough to know the expected results..most of them apply the same & straight approach with all which is not correct..afterall this is what Leadership is all about!!..
Cheers,
Rajat

From India, Pune
chapki_dp
1

Hi all...
Would like to add on to one of Rajat's points in giving negative feedback.
Focus on their actions, not on the person :
It is always better to separate the problem from the person.When a problem rises we always tend to focus on the doer and not the problem.The approach in handling problems should be problem centric and not person centric.
Hi Anu - I agree with Rajat in the leadership aspect.The leader should understand the audience of his employees and act accordingly while giving feedback.
"Value people with values more than people with competence"
Durga

From India, Coimbatore
bala1
20

Durga,
Your point well taken.
Your comment "Value people with values more than people with competence" is something which is apt to today's corporate world. But how many are listening??????????
Thanks
Bala

From India, Madras
Sanath Kumar T S
4

Rightly said! It is tough giving negative feedback when the recipient is not 'open' to it. As you have rightly said, give it in a calm way and make it easier for the recipient to let the feedback sink in. After all, we are not just criticizing that person. We are explaining what needed attention and also we are substantiating it with facts. We could also explain the impact of that person's action / inaction and let that person realize it. We can calmly make it clear that we are NOT deriving any benefit whatsoever by giving this feedback while that person stands to benefit by this action of ours.
When we are at the receiving end of negative feedback, we should also ensure that we evaluate the feedback given and ONLY THEN implement it.
Sanath

From India, Mumbai
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