Whatever Happens, Happens for Good

Dear All,

We often hear people saying "WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR GOOD".

Lets have a discussion on how far this statement holds true. Pls. share your opinions as well as experiences as well.

Regards,

Aashnaa

Everything was planned

So, i m not belive in god......ok

then it is something like playing chess alone ............

Like this post.... whatever happens, happens for the good.... :-)

When people can't control the events or a certain event, would settle for this kind of statement.

Exactly, We hear people saying so in uncontrollable situations. However, does this statement actually hold true in all situations?

It is a very simple logical statement. The meaning , Not allow troubles which we face in our life affect our faith , we have to be strong and know that the God will safe us from these difficulties and it is just exams to test the strength of our faith.

It also means that :

1. It gives you a positive attitude.
2. It teaches you to analyse and avoid a similar mistake in future.
3. Something was destined to happen(bad) and has happened so you are partially purified( you have suffered the punishment so sin is cancelled from ur account)


Whenever you look at your current life and the how you have reached this level, you will realize that whatsoever happened in your life is for good only. If you are the middle of your live, your may not realize. Over a period of time in your life, you will gain wisdom. When you attain that, you will realize how true this statement is.

However our mind is a great thought processor. You can agree to this statement or you can disagree as it is individual’s perception. But thinking in those lines will only make your life positive.

I have personally experienced in my life that this statement is so true. Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

Great Reflection on Life Malini .

[FONT="Arial Narrow"][FONT="Arial Narrow"]Dear Aashnaa

The statement is very much true. Even in my life I have experienced like this so many times.

This story has been told upteen number of times in various forums but this illustrates the best for your statement. It may be real or fictitious but still good to read again and again.

The Story: Wrong Number Sweety:

It was the day of my son’s XII results and I was so tensed. I sat beside him while he logged on the website with his registration no.”Ma”, he screamed in excitement, “I scored 1191, with centum in 4 subjects.” I can’t believe it. “I kind of became numb in my excitement. My eyes became wet. I kissed him on his forehead and smiled.”

Soon we realized that he stood first in the state. Oh, my joy knew no bounds when Reporters and media persons soon swamped my house for interviews and photos. I was so honored to join him in the snaps.

I wanted to call my “wrong-number- friend” to tell him the news…… I was so excited. He was someone whom I have known for more than 20 years.

I still do not remember when we became friends, but certainly cannot forget the first day he called me When I blasted him for giving me so many wrong calls….. After that he had called up a week later asking apology, for he had now got the right no of his friend whom he wanted to talk to .We spoke for an hour that day…even without knowing each other’s names. Though he kept pestering me to reveal my name I never did and so he kept a name…Sweety. I used to get so shy whenever he called me ‘Sweety’. I was doing first year of BSc. Maths then, and he was a Computer Engineering student.

From then he used to call me very often. We almost discussed everything. By the final year of my college, we probably we were in love, but I had been cautious. I was in a dilemma whether to tell him. But what if he was of a different religion? Do I have the courage to talk to my parents about it? ……..all these questions ran through my mind.

I decided I’ll not talk to him thereafter. When he called next time I laid to him I that I was going to Delhifor my post graduation. He gave me his office number and asked me to ring him up once I reach there. I never called…… .

A couple of months later my marriage got fixed with a guy of my parent’s choice. I was not happy but I did not complain; rather accepted it as an obedient daughter. At times I felt I missed my wrong- number- friend…… .

My hubby was a moody person; I have hardly spent any good time with him- but he was genuine indeed and never bothered my personal space. After 2 years we had a boy…Yet, I was not very happy with my married life…One day I happened to browse through my diary and found I still had my old friend’s office phone no that he had given me. I dialed it and spoke with him. He said he was married and got a kid too. I was happy for him though in the bottom of the heart I felt bad that I could not marry him.

From then I used to occasionally call him on that number. I never gave him mine as I felt that would put me in trouble… And till today I almost shared everything with him including my relationship with my hubby…..today I was so happy and I wanted to call him.

Just then I got a call. “Your husband met with an accident and died on the spot” I banged the phone down. I broke. I did not call my friend…..I somehow started feeling guilty. I have never tried to talk to him properly when he was alive or moved close with him…. I felt I had been a bad wife……..

A couple of years passed and one day my son brought home a Bengali girl and said they wanted to get married. I got them married as I did not want my son to go through what I did.

I decided to give my son his father’s room and started clearing it. There was a phone book. I gently opened it to find,

“Wrong no Sweety – 26579785″!!! !!

Whatever GOD plans for us it will always be good and in the best interest of our lives but still in quest for getting everything we end up getting nothing. And in the end forget the real meaning of life and crib for what we do not get.

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What a reply ...superb........