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29-10-2009, 01:32 PM
| | | | Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Vadodara, Gujarat |
| | Well.. I've heard that if bride is older than groom, it brings luck to groom, as in the case of Sachin Tendulkar, Sunil Dutt, Saif Ali Khan, Demi Moore (dont know her hubby name, but he is lucky)etc...
So far as traditional concept of respecting the husband is concerned.. it is changing as women has gained financial independence, economic independence and hence gained lots of respect in society now a days... | |
29-10-2009, 01:39 PM
| | | | Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Heaven |
| | It all depends on mentality....
People think if the girl is elder...and if her salary is more than the man...there will be complications..... sab aisa sochte hai... ofcourse girls get matured early.....so do guys ...
I say that Where ever there is love and mutual understanding and pure bonding...at that scenario age, caste will not affect..... log toh bolte he rehte hai....but
Agar dekha jaye...toh age does matter and play important role.... but agar donno main proper understanding ho toh kuch farak nahi padta hai..... | |
29-10-2009, 01:41 PM
| | | | Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: chennai |
| | Kuljith ji.. wat ever women has financial indepence and gained social respect , she has to be traditional and respect husband and his family. That is Indian culture..... A TRUE INDIAN WOMEN MUST NOT BE PROUD OF ECONOMIC INDEPENDENCE !! MUST FOLLOW EACH AND EVERY CULTURE THAT WAS DESIGNED . Then what will she teach her children ??? no point of being in modern world. when we hav beautifull customs to be followed  Quote:
Originally Posted by Kuljit Pal Singh  Well.. I've heard that if bride is older than groom, it brings luck to groom, as in the case of Sachin Tendulkar, Sunil Dutt, Saif Ali Khan, Demi Moore (dont know her hubby name, but he is lucky)etc...
So far as traditional concept of respecting the husband is concerned.. it is changing as women has gained financial independence, economic independence and hence gained lots of respect in society now a days... | | |
29-10-2009, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by runal_jagtap It all depends on mentality....
People think if the girl is elder...and if her salary is more than the man...there will be complications..... sab aisa sochte hai... ofcourse girls get matured early.....so do guys ...
I say that Where ever there is love and mutual understanding and pure bonding...at that scenario age, caste will not affect..... log toh bolte he rehte hai....but
Agar dekha jaye...toh age does matter and play important role.... but agar donno main proper understanding ho toh kuch farak nahi padta hai..... | A Good reply Runal .. Blaming the whole of Mankind on few examples or vice-versa is something I do not agree! All depends on understanding and Love between the couple!! | |
29-10-2009, 02:00 PM
| | | | Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Chennai |
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Originally Posted by 1982.deepika@gmail.com Hi friends Does Age Play Important Role in Marriage or Not???? if the boy is elder than girl then the society doesnt say anything.... but the girl is elder than boys then some people says it is not good for relationship. Why So.... Waiting for ur reply....
| Dear Deepika
It is nothing but, depnds upon mensuration cycle, the women's mensure cycle closes near by 40 or 40+, there after, their sexual limit is lesser comparing to men, that is why our ancestors thinks about age difference of 5 to 10 years. Man can impregnate a woman around 60 years too...
but after completion of mensuration cycle, the women cannot do so.
That is why the difference, it is scientifically proven. It is nothing about any male shavanism or any thing it is purely science. Actually both of them are equal on all aspects, but this is the reality, why there is age difference between Women and a Men. I am sorry, If I get into the deep, but this is the real answer. | |
29-10-2009, 02:04 PM
| | | | Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Chandigarh |
| | Its true tht whn you choose a younger men our society which is sadly not forthcoming in accepting circumstance as such as this one will keep on harassing you tht its unconvetional which can result in divorce or bigamy........nevertheless if ur bonding is strong & u r comfortable wid such relationship thn one can go for it...................... Quote:
Originally Posted by karthi10385 but i read.. there are somebody marrying like the guy is 18 and the girl 25 also.. the reason what they are telling is in older ages the guy can take care of the girl... just for sharing.. | | |
29-10-2009, 02:06 PM
| | | | Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Heaven |
| | Mr. Ravi...every1 knows abt it..... just discussing about the current and present situation......lets not discuss abt future.... anyways thanks for comments  | |
29-10-2009, 02:12 PM
| | | | Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Chennai |
| | Yes, age surely plays a vital role in marriage. Have you ever heard of Organization structure in an IT company. Even our country has hierarchal structure such as president, Prime minister, Governor, Chief Minister etc. Like wise, every family should have a unique planned structure and thats how this rule came into light that husband should be older than wife and the reasons are as follows : - In olden days only guys were educated and hence they became the souce of earning. Women were busy in household works. So according to them the one who earns and runs the family becomes the head of the family and If he is elder, usually younger members like wife and children in the family values his words.
- In most cases it is observed that women mature & age faster/earlier than man. In many same-age marriage couples the women look older. So thats why they needed age gap.
- When it comes to love and understanding yes age doesnt matter but when it comes to responsibilities and maturity level surely there will be a clash if women is elder than men.
- Guys are usually domiantive and cannot tolerate if his wife is a step ahead than him, earning more than him, dominative, if she heads the family and so on........Its again an ego factor for which even the guys cannot be blamed.
- It even has an impact on the kids too.
Its like a custom that has been followed for years together. This generation people may not take this as a big concern as they talk only about love and understanding but no one can gaurentee for how long will it sustain. I personally feel that always there should be someone called as head of the family for a happy and healthy family.  | |
29-10-2009, 02:21 PM
| | | | Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Vadodara, Gujarat |
| | Agree Traditional... Nithya ji  Quote:
Originally Posted by nithya_hr Kuljith ji.. wat ever women has financial indepence and gained social respect , she has to be traditional and respect husband and his family. That is Indian culture..... A TRUE INDIAN WOMEN MUST NOT BE PROUD OF ECONOMIC INDEPENDENCE !! MUST FOLLOW EACH AND EVERY CULTURE THAT WAS DESIGNED . Then what will she teach her children ??? no point of being in modern world. when we hav beautifull customs to be followed | | |
29-10-2009, 02:24 PM
| | | | Fantastic reply......Kuljit......... Quote:
Originally Posted by Kuljit Pal Singh Well.. I've heard that if bride is older than groom, it brings luck to groom, as in the case of Sachin Tendulkar, Sunil Dutt, Saif Ali Khan, Demi Moore (dont know her hubby name, but he is lucky)etc...
So far as traditional concept of respecting the husband is concerned.. it is changing as women has gained financial independence, economic independence and hence gained lots of respect in society now a days... | |
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