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29-10-2009, 12:22 PM
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| | Thanx all for valuable replies...
I think in arrange marriages the girls are always younger in our Indian families due to the patriarchal nature of our families. Parents believe the girl should get molded in boys family lifestyle and all such traditional old stuff, which is not completely crap for at the end of the day in an Indian family its girl who has lot more to sacrifice and lose in a marriage.
Though when love takes over age or any other criteria takes back seat. | |
29-10-2009, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted by nithya_hr  If the girl is too young then she can not tackle the childish husband. it wil take long time to adjust. | she can tackle,if she will give him chokltz  | |
29-10-2009, 12:30 PM
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| | @ abhi - hahahahahahhaaaaa................... | |
29-10-2009, 12:32 PM
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| | Yes Deepika.. wat ever age a women marries , she is the one who sacrifices her likes and dislikes and undergo pain and loss. Its a women who will suffer . But she need an identity so she gets married. !!! Not every women is loved for whole life. world is materialistic.
They create a lot of wife jokes , but actually it must be vice versa. women sacrifice her sir name , leave her family and come. what do men scarifice ?? she would hav not cooked for her own parents but must cook for new family who came in her life just in middle of her life.... no sleep , no smile... no rest .... how long women can struggle ? on top of it wife jokes get posted in name of humour.. who ever post it , in next birth they will be born as women...... and then they will know the value and meaning of suffering | |
29-10-2009, 12:33 PM
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| | Abhiiii how long will he accept chocolates ???? don u think his demand will change ?? he he he Quote:
Originally Posted by abhi16march | | |
29-10-2009, 12:37 PM
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| | Nithya, thats again a valid questn  ........ Abhi, answer this........ Quote:
Originally Posted by nithya_hr Abhiiii how long will he accept chocolates ???? don u think his demand will change ?? he he he | | |
29-10-2009, 12:37 PM
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| | Agree with u Nits..... Womens are the one who sacrifices Most of the time Quote:
Originally Posted by nithya_hr Yes Deepika.. wat ever age a women marries , she is the one who sacrifices her likes and dislikes and undergo pain and loss. Its a women who will suffer . But she need an identity so she gets married. !!! Not every women is loved for whole life. world is materialistic.
They create a lot of wife jokes , but actually it must be vice versa. women sacrifice her sir name , leave her family and come. what do men scarifice ?? she would hav not cooked for her own parents but must cook for new family who came in her life just in middle of her life.... no sleep , no smile... no rest .... how long women can struggle ? on top of it wife jokes get posted in name of humour.. who ever post it , in next birth they will be born as women...... and then they will know the value and meaning of suffering | | |
29-10-2009, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by nithya_hr Abhiiii how long will he accept chocolates ???? don u think his demand will change ?? he he he | he will demand for varieties of chokltz nothing else dont worry | |
29-10-2009, 12:39 PM
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| | but i read.. there are somebody marrying like the guy is 18 and the girl 25 also.. the reason what they are telling is in older ages the guy can take care of the girl... just for sharing.. | |
29-10-2009, 01:20 PM
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| | Karthi.. If guy is 18 and girl is 25 then its 5 years difference.. in some point of time she will not respect him..... as he is younger to her. The main reason why husband should be elder is he deserve respect from his wife. Our Indian culture has a habbit of wiife falling in feet of husband on occational days. If we fall on feet of younger person their life span will decrease.... Iam just sharing my knowledge not to hurt Karthi Quote:
Originally Posted by karthi10385 but i read.. there are somebody marrying like the guy is 18 and the girl 25 also.. the reason what they are telling is in older ages the guy can take care of the girl... just for sharing.. | |
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