My Female boss is harassing me. What to do?

Hi, near about one year ago, My female boss proposed me and for that situation I started a thread here
http://www.citehr.com/151330-my-fema...se-advise.html

Thanks for all of your suggesions. I concluded to rejecting her proposal at that time. Because she is very hi-profile lady.

Now, The situation is that she has started harassing me. She want me to spend more and more time with her, she want me to visit her home, she want me to drive with her in his car. She gives me the assignments that can not be completed without sitting near to her. I do not want to do that. I do not want to leave the job as it is a very good job and I am getting great salaries there.
Now, the problem is that my every colleauge know about this matter.

What should I do? I do not want to get married anywhere still, as I want to have some more growth and money in my hands.

Please advise.

Stupid do not have horns on his head.

Hello,
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Praveen

Well the best answer would be face 2 face talk .... have a talk with her regarding this and let her know it clearlly that you are not interested in her and in da mean while try to think of moving with in your organisation .... i mean like you can as well change your process and get rid of her .... or else you accept her proposal ........... I KNOW IT SOUNDS VERY ILLOGICAL ......but i'm sure once you have a face 2 face talk with her you can come out with a solution .....

u have to b tricky in handling this situatioin.... don't avoid the situation and DON'T avoid her also.... all u have to do is to FAKE ur feelings for her at the same time being ALERT... hope u kno wat i mean..... i m sure this can b handled by applying a little brain (and u have one... i guess..!)

all the best

everybody is looking for these kind of oppotunities, but do not get....simply enjoy

What do u expect from us man. If you want to fight a situation , you got to take it straight. Take the bull by its horn, not by its tail. Let us keep the santity of this professional network.Do share things and aspects which does good to people by and large. It is your problem, you got to solve it.

you can't have the cake and eat it tooo!!!

either accept the lady's proposal (your ego would be hurt!!!) or quit the job. the thing is you like being the blue-eyed boy of your boss and enjoy her attention. introspect and if you really like her accept her and go ahead.

what's hurting you deep inside is this - she's in a higher position than you. if she were on par with you or just a rung below you, you might have accepted her.

be honest dude!!! take her or leave her.

Hello,

You need to be "clear" about what you need.

If you want the job -and not enter into such scenarios, you need to inform her that you find it difficult to work on the particular assignments she is giving you.

If she is still not interested in leavign you alone - take a call. Look out. That is what I meant by being "clear" in what you want. She is not the only employer out there. Or are you not sure of your abilities to find a better job?

Look - this is something you need to take a call by yourself "on what you want" and "what you dont want".

But if its just mere sympathy and attention you crave for, and still put up an image that you are being chased - sorry, we are not here for that. I dont know if this would hurt you but YES. You are making a mountain out of a simple issue which you can decide, and only "you" can decide.

Don't tell me that its the job that is stopping you from moving out - give us a better reason Sir!