When ever there is a allegation levied against a person, by any one against another then, the burden of proving that the allegation so levied is false is always on the person against whom a compalint or harassment of any kind has been levied, and onus of proving harassment is never on the victim
This principle is derived from the principle of Natural Justice, which is source for all other legal principles.
I am completly stunned by the fact, that your so called anti harassment committee is not aware of all this.
As you have posted in Australian forum, I assume that you are an Indian settled in Australia. Kindly do not let it go like this, kindly file a complaint for racisist remarks, and also for gender bais.
Giving birth is a privileage that god gave only to females, and the same should be seen and addressed with complete strictness,and treated with respect.
I hope with this statement in mind, you will see to that you will teach your boss "The Hand That Rocks The Cradle Is The Hand That Rules The World"
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